Marriage. What its all about?

 Hey there,

Hows life? interesting? hehe. A lot of things happened this year right... from single to married, life to death, healthy to sick, birthday party to birthday quarantine....things changed drastically from we have everything to almost nothing. But it never the same to each and everyone. Some people appreciates every single things happened this year, some people suffer a lot. However, we must always look on each other and keep everyone connected in some ways. Time moves very fast, without we even realize, we are only 4 months away to the new year of 2021. Time travels the world while we remain where we are. Life..in 2020 will always be in history. 

So, by the end of the year, marks one year of my married life. Living in the house where only me and my husband, sharing everything together, doing everything together. How fast time flies, its almost a year of our togetherness. Still people greet us "Hello lovebirds, hello newly-wed couples" like it just happened last month, like it just happened last week even sometimes it feels like just yesterday. Without realizing its almost a year of growth. I am grateful..

Few months of our marriage was filled with a lot of emotions and events. A lot of new things new character new events that i thought i knew everything about married life but actually i know nothing. How devastating it sound just like how i felt. I know nothing about sharing life with a person we hope nothing but love. Each day passed like its a new day tomorrow. Each day i have learned that even smallest thing means big. And even man acts like woman. Even we always believe that "shes always right" there is also "hes always right". A lot of unexpected becomes expected. But....my dear friends, that is not what marriage is all about. 

Marriage is all about understanding each other, accepting each other flaws, listening to each other bad jokes, big fart, going through life in different ways but met at the end with same understanding. Loving the good and the bad of the person, supporting each others dream even the most ridiculous dream you ever heard. But still you want to be there and lift them up. Marriage teaches me a lot. I never expect to be who i am now and i could never believe how much i have changed towards the best of me. Marriage brings out the best of you in the most unexpected ways you ever thought about. and yes again, I am grateful. After six months of marriage, we started to grow fonder together and my life never been so happy and filled like we are now. 

I never thought that now everyday, I thank God for the life He gave to me. For the person I am married to. For the blessing that i have received from Him. Each and everyday, i learn to become better and better. A better slave for Him, a better wife for my husband, a better daughter for my parents and a better friend and person the world needs. I never thought that marriage do brings me closer to God and closer to the people surrounds me. I am deeply thankful for my marriage. and here, i support all my friend, and any of you who are planning to get married, go and get married! You would experience a whole new life that you could never felt before. and be happy and gratitude for each and everything. 

People changes, time passed by. We live for Him, we live for the life hereafter. 

Love, 

S.